A little variety and creativity goes a long way to stirring up sexy thoughts simmering just below the surface.
So here are 5 more ways to get in the mood for romance. For my top 5 ways click here
6. It has been proven that you cannot feel stressed when engaged in deep breathing. So practice taking 6 or 7 slow deep breaths into your belly and exhaling any stresses for your day. Then take another 4 or 5 breaths and imagine some previous romantic scenarios you have had with your lover. This will help to get your mind present and feeling which gives you greater opportunity for arousal.
7. Leave a lipstick on the mirror message (be more romantic than explicit if you have little ones) promising a treat to your partner later on that night. Have dinner and a new sex position planned for the two of you to try. You can explain the idea over dinner or lead him slowly by the hand to find out dessert for himself!
8. Watch an erotic movie together. This doesn’t necessarily mean porn (though if you find a movie that works for BOTH of you, that’s great), but a movie that turns you on and gets your romantic juices flowing perhaps during a particular love scene or even during the movie overall. The rewards of watching a ‘chick flick’ are worth it for some men who don’t particularly enjoy them.
9. Prepare a meal together with either very little or nothing on but a smile. If you need to get a babysitter, do so or trade child minding with a friend so you have the space to create your recipe for romance. You can add a game which rewards you with kisses after each item is prepared and then top it off by feeding each other – now that is romantic and should get anyone’s motor humming!
10. Put on a man’s white dress shirt (thrift stores have them if you can’t find one) and surprise your man by hopping into his shower with him with only the shirt on and offer to wash his back.
Passionately,
Kim Switnicki, ACC
Sex Educator & Intimacy Coach for Women
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